That is what Viagra is for, no? We fuck every morning regardless of plans, but husband will take a Viagra (not that brand , I think it’s the Cialis technically) a few hours ahead if he knows we will be out drinking and dancing or whatever and will want to have sex afterwards.
Overall, more makes more for us, there is no fasting from sex, it doesn’t make it better for either of us.
I am old enough to remember when shaving all over was a fetish thing. But having been smooth, woah I like it so much better. I got ingrown hairs more leaving it natural, and it was itchier, but my natural hair is quite coarse and curly.
The skin biome isn’t weak enough to be lost by cutting off the hair, though, right? I’ve shaved my underarms since forever ago and no problems there, and plenty of men are bald or shave their face.
Assuming it’s your preference to be smooth, not just doing it for someone else:
If any salon in your town does manscaping body waxing, waxing is the smoothest growback, and over time the hair gets a little softer and sparser. Nair seems like a terrible idea in such a sensitive area. Professional waxing hurts but over quick, lasts 4-6 weeks, and they are under health department rules.
If you are just doing this for someone else:
As a giver -of-blowjobs, I do very much appreciate trimmed short at least, and trimmed short is enough. Run the trimmer or razor last pass in the direction of hair growth so it’s not so rough on your partners’ tender skin.
Sorry about the yeast, yuck. That sucks.
Of course we do, it’s nothing to do with jealousy, just expedient. Already in there, would you get out of the shower and pee in the toilet? That seems silly.
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There are plenty of things I can’t do anymore, but I was shocked at how hot it was to do some of the things I thought I wouldn’t like in real life.
I think masochism is the line where it’s the most different - I like some pain IRL but it can quickly cross to where it’s unsexy or only hot because I am doing it for the sadist, like as a submissive thing it’s satisfying but the literal pain is just painful beyond what is gonna make the high or the arousal. In fantasy, where obviously I’m not hurting, that line is farther away, though it still exists.
You do need good communication and an enthusiastic partner to do any sort of threesome, I think it’s fun (MFM), was better in real life than I’d imagined it would be.
CNC I have written about here, that is different in real life but not worse. I think because in your mind the other person is undefined, right? More like stuff being done to you. But in real life it’s a real person with their own desires, they are driving, you are on their ride.
I guess I’m old enough to now, so sure. Only to get the all over tan, though, if I ever decide to become one of the leathery old beach people.
Mostly I just think people shouldn’t freak out about naked people on any beach, we are so close to naked in swimsuits, what does it matter?
What would I have? Or what would I want?
What I’d want is a transmissible absolute immunity to all sexually transmitted disease.
What I’d have, most likely, is some sort of aura that made guys just lose themselves in the moment, and no matter how long we spent fucking, when it was over no time would have passed in the real world. There would always be time for sex.
And @OP, I would hate to meet you with that superpower. A little bit of anal is the right amount, too long is just unpleasant.
I mean, kind of.
On Reddit I didn’t because the smut mostly was just helping out with NormalNudes, and posting encouraging comments on the nude fitness progress sub, and I don’t really care, it was nudes but pretty wholesome. And I don’t have any online social media with my identity, never did because that whole scene seems dreadful.
Here I have 2 accounts, it’s easier to do that on Lemmy.
If I’m thinking, something is wrong. Just feeling, not thinking.
It’s good if the guy is hung big, downward curve, and really hard. I know, very specific requirements. But when all that happens, it’s a really intense angle but can control it, if that makes sense. From kneeling, I can’t do the squatting thing.
I had bad nearsightedness and LASIK, while it did help, did not give me the supernatural vision that hard contacts used to, and also it regressed over the years so now I’m about -2 (better than the -6 I had, just thin comfortable glasses now).
It’s not magic but did help a lot. Like, I can go to the beach now without feeling blind. Not disabled just nearsighted now.
Yeah and DP, that is kinda awkward but feels really good, the best arrangement I found for that is smaller guy in ass with me leaning back, bigger guy more active, in pussy. Toys do not accomplish that feeling, the two guys.
One in mouth one in pussy is good but sort of dangerous for the one I am blowing, the only thing I’ve really ever been good at in bed is letting go, I get afraid I might bite down if I cum and that holds me back a little and so not my favorite part.
I miss that stuff and know my husband does too but I had an HPV run in and it takes a long time to clear when you are old (we are lucky it even did) and guys my age are not vaccinated for that, and condoms do not stop it so really now I am out of the fun.
No, the pulsing is what I feel when I feel it.
Maybe what we want is to not have to tell you what we want, lol. But yeah it takes some of the pleasure out of it if the guy isn’t paying enough attention to know, I guess. Like it’s a skill and a valuable one.
It’s not actually a straight male/female split - I notice that my husband will ask for things and is really just asking, yes or no is ok; I tend not to ask unless I actually need something. I do think his way is more reasonable but I can anticipate for him and would consider him smarter if he could do that too, if that makes sense.
Are you good at giving gifts? It’s a similar skill IMO, the paying attention.
I don’t enjoy straight swap (why fuck someone else, when the guy I have is so good?) but like MFM- both having and watching so if we could each take turns with both guys, maybe.
It depends. If we cum at the same time, no. If I am clear minded enough to pay attention, yes.
Yes.
Quick in the morning, but in the evening after even a couple of beers, so much endurance I tap out. Which is sort of bad as I find it so much easier to get off (and again, and again) in the afternoon or evening, but then get so tired, oof.
If he wants to go a long time he says Viagra and some drinks. I guess that is both relaxed and propped up. I asked about intensity but he says always about the same.
A little worse for oral, just less familiar with it, a little better for PIV, more slip less friction. Marginal difference but slight advantage team intact.
No, as a mom I gotta say first, that would be creepy as fuck. And second, even high school girls are not usually into high school boys, adult women even less so.
Absolutely not my thing.