Sarah Valentine (she/her)

Trans woman, sci-fi/fantasy writer, student of psychology.

I’m not a dude or a bro. I don’t care how you justify it.

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Cake day: January 15th, 2026

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  • For starters, I gotta say I don’t think you’re being silly at all. Your experience is valid, your identity is valid, you are valid. You’re doing the hard work of getting into yourself and sorting that out, which is a good thing. You’re only having this struggle because you’re being brave about things most people would rather lock up in their metaphorical basement and forget about.

    You may feel alone but you’re not, you’re only isolated. Stay in touch with the wider world, take opportunities to join small communities geared toward LGBT+ people and see if you don’t find one that fits, with good people you can foster friendships with. I struggle with that part but sometimes tenacity pays off and you wind up with decent people who provide good moral support. Whatever you do, don’t let the isolation convince you that it’s the same as being alone!





  • I dunno. All my life, my kind have never been catered to by politicians. Minor concessions granted in our favor yes, but LGBTQ+ people have had to fight tooth and nail for everything we’ve ever gotten, and what did we really achieve if all of it can be taken away by one shitty administration in the span of two years? My government has been harmful to me all my life.

    That said, I still went out and voted against Trump in the last election because I believed not doing so would be tantamount to approving fascism. So you’re right that some states are more harmful than others, even if some people have been given good reason to see them all as intrinsically harmful.