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agent_flounder@lemmy.worldtoaskmenover30@lemm.ee•Men over 30, have you ever been in a legit confrontation with a stranger?English
5·2 years agoIn my 50s. I’ve never been in a fight. I’ve gotten into confrontations a few times.
First was a guy on an off road trail. I was leading a group and one of em broke down and blocked the trail. Some cranky, leathery old fuck was being a dick about us being in the way. It had already been a stressful moment in a stressful day in a stressful week and I was fucking done and lost it. Couple of the guys had to keep me from getting in his face. I very, very rarely lose control. I wished I hadn’t and In retrospect I can totally see his point. But also he could have been less of a dick about it. And I should have been the mature guy and ignored his gnarled ass. I was 30 something.
Some shitheads were in a car honking, yelling at, and harassing my wife who was trying to park while I was across the street on the sidewalk. I was really pissed and repeatedly yelled at them to gtfo (more or less) until they finally left. I suppose they could’ve had a gun and shot me and that would’ve been a suboptimal outcome… And my wife can take care of herself. So mild regret on that one.
That’s the only times that jump to mind where I actually got really angry. There may have been times I am forgetting where someone was pissed at me or something and I de-escalated instead of escalating.
I would be more careful now. Why? It’s too big of a risk. I spent a lot of time playing out various scenarios and thinking about confrontations when I decided to carry a concealed firearm. It’s a huge responsibility and cannot be taken lightly. I felt morally and ethically obligated to avoid conflict, let alone escalation, at all costs. (ETA: The obvious exception is a case of legitimate self defense where someone intends to harm me or mine)
I no longer carry but it was extremely valuable to spend the time contemplating confrontations and potential outcomes. Even though I’ve never been a hothead (like my dad was) or thought I was some badass, I still realized I should be more careful.
Two major confrontations and zero fights in all these years isn’t too bad but I could’ve handled both better.
I hope to do better going forward.
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linuxmemes@lemmy.world•The fix is scheduled for the next releaseEnglish
131·2 years ago“When he reached the New World, Cortezh burned hish ships. Ash a reshult hish men were well motivated.” —Capt. Ramius, played by Sean Connery in The Hunt for Red October
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ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•PSA: It's probably timeEnglish
10·2 years agoYay
Now what was I going to make …last Tuesday?
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Privacy@lemmy.ml•Microsoft is silently installing Copilot onto Windows Server 2022English
6·2 years agoMint is a good recommendation. I’ve used it for most of a decade because I just want my system to work.
Nobody is both that bored and that motivated. Unless paid.
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science@lemmy.world•Nuclear fusion reactor in South Korea runs at 100 million degrees C for a record-breaking 48 secondsEnglish
8·2 years agoEmotionally? No. Linguistically, sure.
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science@lemmy.world•Nuclear fusion reactor in South Korea runs at 100 million degrees C for a record-breaking 48 secondsEnglish
23·2 years agoIt’s seriously insane growing up on star trek and then seeing it come to life.
Still holding out for flying cars.
And warp drive!
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Games@lemmy.world•The New York Times Simulator - A free casual game about manufacturing consentEnglish
151·2 years agoThis feels very “just found out about politics and damn” tbh.
Ok.
I think this would be of value for sharing with people that aren’t aware (my kid when she was younger).
Or is there a better resource to do this?
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Linux@lemmy.ml•research!rsc: The xz attack shell scriptEnglish
5·2 years agoThis is all I’ve run across on reverse engineering, so far but it is quite interesting.
https://bsky.app/profile/filippo.abyssdomain.expert/post/3kowjkx2njy2b
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Dad Jokes@lemmy.world•Why did the skeleton refuse to go to the ball?English
10·2 years agoYou sure made no bones about your opinion there.
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Programming@programming.dev•What we know about the xz Utils backdoor that almost infected the worldEnglish
5·2 years agoI have a feeling there are a lot of busy people trying to answer that question, now. Yikes.
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Programming@programming.dev•What we know about the xz Utils backdoor that almost infected the worldEnglish
15·2 years agoYeah it sounds pretty wild already with some kind of, like, door knock mechanism using certificates? So you can’t scan for it. And some reverse engineering countermeasures.
Like everyone else, I have to wonder what libraries have been compromised in a way that nobody has noticed yet.
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Open Source@lemmy.ml•XZ Hack - "If this timeline is correct, it’s not the modus operandi of a hobbyist. [...] It wouldn’t be surprising if it was paid for by a state actor."English
4·2 years agoSome of the trust comes from eyes on the project thanks to it being open source. This thing got discovered, after all. Not right away, sure, but before it spread everywhere. Same question of trust applies to commercial software too.
Ideally, PR reviews help with this but smaller projects esp with few contributors may not do much of that. I doubt anyone has spent time understanding the software supply chain (SSC) attack surface of their product but that seems like a good next step. Someone needs to write a tool that scans the SSC repos and flags certain measures like the # of maintainers.
PS: I have the worst allergies I’ve had in ages today and my brain is in a histamine fog so maybe I shouldn’t be trying to think about this stuff right now lol cough uuugh blows nose
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Privacy@lemmy.ml•I got this notification when browsing Stackoverflow on Firefox...English
1·2 years agoIs there really anything they couldn’t collect?
I would go nuts or od if not for the pill organizer. Refilling sucks. But I sigh loudly every Sunday and manage to do it lol
Fortunately they can write up 3 Rx and then send to the pharmacy every month until my next appt.
Of course my pharmacy can’t get the stuff due to the shortage so I have been without for 2wks now. It’s a process to have the Rx sent over to a different pharmacy. Easy for someone normal. But ADHD without meds? Yeah.


Let’s see em doordash that